
[Last updated: 13 May 2016]
Johan Friederich Stembel (Great-grandfather)
Frederick Stembel (Grandfather)
John Stembel (Father)
Joseph V. S. Stembel
JOSEPH VAN SWEARINGEN STEMBEL (1828-1920)
Joseph was born in Middletown, Maryland, on July 28, 1828. He was the youngest of John and Elenor's 12 children (only six of whom survived to adulthood). Joseph was named after his mother's father, General Joseph Van Swearingen(1) (Van was his middle name rather than part of his surname). When Joseph was about 3 years old his family moved to Ohio, eventually settling on a farm south of West Liberty in Champaign County. Growing up, he attended private subscription schools (free public education did not yet exist).(2)
When Joseph was 22, he married Mary Magdalena Ziegler. Mary was born in Perry County, Ohio, the eldest of eight children. Her parents moved to Champaign County when she was 2 years old.(3) The Ziegler farm was located very close to the Stembel's farm. It seems likely the two families were closely acquainted and that Joseph and Mary knew each other since childhood. After their marriage, Joseph bought a piece of land about one mile west of his father's farm.(4) It was adjacent to the farm of his wife's family. He built a house and farmed the land. They lived there for the rest of their lives.
Joseph and Mary had eight children, all of whom reached adulthood and married. Mary was raised as a Lutheran, but she joined the nearby Wesley Chapel Church, where the Stembels worshiped, in 1855. All eight of her children attended the church as well. Joseph, however, did not join the church until 1911. This was Mary's final wish as she lay on her deathbed.(5) This illustrates Joseph's great affection for his wife of 60 years.
In 1901, Joseph and Mary celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. All eight of their children attended, as well as most, if not all, of their grandchildren. A family portrait taken that day included 53 family members! Joseph, though seated, appears to be a tall, trim man with full dark hair (at the age of 73!) with a white beard 7 or 8 inches long. He has a granddaughter on his lap (see the photo on the home page).

50th Wedding Anniversary (1901). Standing L-R: Malissa, George, John, Mary, Catherine, Albert, William, Addie; Seated: Joseph, Mary.
In 1910 Mary and Joseph again celebrated their wedding anniversary with a huge family reunion. This was their 59th, and last, anniversary together. Joseph and Mary were both 82 years old. Seven of their eight children attended (their oldest, Malissa, had passed away eight years before). A newspaper account of that gathering reported there were 107 guests in attendance. Besides their seven children, there were 38 grandchildren, and 20 great-grandchildren.(6) Mary died six months later.

59th Wedding Anniversary (1910). Standing L-R: Mary, Albert, Catherine, William, Addie; Seated: George, (empty chair for Malissa-deceased), Mary, Joseph, John.
Joseph lived nine more years. During this time two more of his children died, George Oren and Albert. Joseph died in February 1920. He was 91 years old. Both Mary and Joseph are buried in the cemetery at Wesley Chapel. At the time of his death, Joseph was the oldest original settler in Champaign County.(7)

Wesley Chapel Church and cemetery, Wesley Chapel Road, southwest of West Liberty, Ohio.

Joseph and Mary Stembel's tombstone in Wesley Chapel Church's cemetery.
Joseph and Mary Stembel's eight children:
A. Malissa (1852-1902). Malissa was born June 7, 1852, near West Liberty. Ohio. Much of what I know about Malissa comes from the 1880 and 1900 census. Malissa married John W. Emery on New Years Day, 1874. John was 24, Malissa 22. They had nine children between the years 1875 and 1892. The first eight were girls; the ninth was a boy.
At the time of the 1880 census they lived on a farm in Harrison Township, Champaign County. Also living with them at the time was a 20 year old servant girl (Nancy Dewey), a 26 year old hired hand (John Egnar from New York) and the hired hand's mother.
In 1900 they still lived on a farm in Harrison Township. They had a hired hand, 20 year old Samuel Jenkins.
John died in 1901 at the age of 50. Malissa died a year later, leaving their children, aged 9, 11, 13, 16, and 18, orphaned. Both are buried in West Liberty's Fairview Cemetery.
John and Malissa Emery's children:
5. Grace Malissa. Grace was born October 9, 1883, in Champaign County. Sometime around 1903 she married Arthur Garfield Hanger. In 1910 they were living on a farm in Champaign County. That same year they attended Joseph and Mary's 59th anniversary and family reunion. Census records show three known children: Henry, Bernice, and William. They were still farming in Champaign County according to the census records, but by 1930 they had moved to California, and residing in Redondo Beach, where Arthur worked as a gardiner for a country club. Arthur died July 18, 1966, in Los Angeles. Grace remained in California. She died March 12, 1974, in San Pedro.Ida died of cancer on October 26, 1925, just days after her 40th birthday. She is buried in the Bellefontaine City Cemetery. J.O. remarried five years later.
In 2009 I received an email from a grandchild (or step-grandchild) of Eva's who shared a few memories of her "Grandma Eva": "Grandma Eva was Aunt Connie's mother ["Connie" was Constance Funderburg]. She was a wonderful grandma. I used to stay with her over weekends sometimes. One time she took me to Thrifty Drug Store for lunch. We had salads, which I have always remembered, a half of head of really large iceberg lettuce with dressing. I didn't think I'd ever be able to eat it all. She also made the best deviled eggs. She used dry mustard in them with some vinegar along with the mayonaise etc. She gave me a lot of sheet music and I sang some of her favorite songs at her funeral. She was really up in the Eas[t]ern Star [the Order of the Eastern Star is a Freemason organisation open to men and women. It was quite popular in the late 19th and early and middle 20th century]."
B. George Oren (1853-1914). George is the subject of a later chapter.
C. John Virgil (1855-1937). Joseph and Mary's third child, John, was born on July 23, 1855, near West Liberty, Ohio. He was educated in the public schools of Champaign County.(8) On June 29, 1879, he married Emma Barger. John was almost 24, Emma was 20. They had six children, one of whom died young.
In the 1900 census, John and Emma were living in Union Township, Champaign County, where John was a Farm Laborer. Three of their children were living with them. In the 1910 census, John, Emma, and their youngest son Willie, were living with John's parents. Joseph was 81 and had turned the farm over to John.
John was a member of the Wesley Chapel Episcopal Methodist Church and the Masonic Lodge.(9) He died at the age of 76 on March 12, 1937; Emma died 5 months later.
John and Emma Stembel's six children:
D. Mary Louize (1857-1951). Mary was born March 2, 1857, near West Liberty, Ohio. In September of 1881 she married Robert Kirkwood, son of David and Mary Kirkwood. Robert was 31 years old, seven years older than Mary. He was a school teacher.
At the time of the 1900 census, Mary and Robert were living on West Beard Street in West Liberty, Ohio. In 1910 they attended Mary and Joseph's 59th anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were now living in Urbana, Ohio.
Robert died in 1924, at the age of 74. Mary lived 27 more years. Sometime after her husband's death she moved to Columbus, Ohio, where she was living at the time of the 1930 census. She died in 1951 at the age of 94.
Mary and Robert Kirkwood's children:
E. Catherine Eleanor (1861-1940). Catherine was born March 9, 1861, near West Liberty, Ohio. She was known as "Ella." Catherine married John K. Duff on December 20, 1885. She was 24. I believe John was three years older than she. Ella and John attended Joseph and Mary's 59th wedding anniversary. The newspaper article indicated they were living in Rushylvania (Logan County), Ohio, at the time. Ella and John had three children, and lived in Logan County, Ohio their whole lives.
John died April 22, 1936; Catherine lived four more years. She passed away on October 9, 1940, at the age of 79.
Catherine and John Duff's three children:
F. Albert Frederick (1864-1916). Albert is the subject of a later chapter.
G. William Henry (1867-1946). William was born February 27, 1867, near West Liberty, Ohio. He was Joseph and Mary's seventh child. William grew up on his father's farm. Little is known about his childhood.
William married Helen Baldwin sometime around 1885. They had two daughters, Florence and Ruth. Just two months shy of her 31st birthday, Helen died, leaving William with two young children (Ruth was just a year-and-a-half old). Two years later, William married Rhoda Fultz. They had a child: a son named David. David was born in Washington Court House, Ohio (I assume David and Rhoda were living there at the time).
At the time of the 1900 federal census--less than two years after David was born--William and Rhoda had moved to Newport, Kentucky. In 1910, they attended Joseph and Mary's 95th Anniversary. According to the newspaper account, they were still living in Newport.
William died September 26, 1946. He was 79. Rhoda died February 21, 1963, in Cincinnati, at the age of 87.
William Stembel's three children (two wives):
Sometime around 1911, Florence married Louis Woeste. They had two children, Helen (born 1913) and Bonnie (born 1916). They lived in Newport for a time but moved to Cincinnati between 1920 and 1930. I don't know when they died.
About 1915, Ruth married Earl Crumrine. Earl was a farmer and later a farm implement salesman. They first lived in Covington, Kentucky, where their first child was born, and then moved to Champaign County, Ohio, and later to Cincinnati. They had eight children: Earl, Jr., William, Laura Jane, Mary, George, Bliss, Charles, and Sally. I have no record of Ruth or Earl's deaths.
On January 20, 1926, Maynard married Dorothy Edwards. They had two children, but the youngest died as an infant. Their oldest child was David, Jr.
Maynard became a steel company executive in Pittsburgh where he and Dorothy lived most of their life. Dorothy died December 17, 1970, in Pittsburgh, and is buried in Homewood Cemetery there. Maynard died 3½ years later, on May 21, 1974, in Palm Beach, Florida. He was 75. He is also buried in Pittsburgh's Homewood Cemetery.
David and Dorothy Stembel's child:
David made the Navy his career. He advanced through the ranks, and eventually headed up the Navy's Guided Missile Frigate program. That was David's last assignment. He retired from the Navy in 1985 as a Captain.
David's family lived in Silver Spring, Maryland (just a few miles from this writer). David was an avid gardener; he also served as the local high school's swimming team announcer. David died July 10, 1995, in Silver Spring and is buried in Arlington National Cemetery just a few feet from his distant cousin Adm. Roger Nelson Stembel. Judy continued to live in their Silver Spring home and work as a docent at the Hillwood Museum in nearby Washington, D.C. She now lives with a son.
David and Judy Stembel's three children:
H. Addie Elizabeth (1871-1954). Addie is the subject of a later chapter.
2. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 804. Author and publisher unknown.
3. Ibid. p. 805.
4. Ibid. p. 804.
5. Mary Ziegler Stembel's obituary published on 24 January 1911. Probably from an Urbana OH newspaper. Original in the possession of Miriam Stembel Lawyer, Wheatfield, IN, 1983.
6. "Wedding Anniversary is celebrated by Stembel Family", report of Joseph V.S. and Mary Stembel's 59th Wedding Anniversary. Date of article is unknown (probably June 1910). It is most likely from an Urbana, OH, newspaper.
7. Ibid.
8. "History of Champaign County, Ohio" Vol II, p. 805.
9. Ibid. p. 806.
10. Church records. Urbana Methodist Church, 1896 - 1914. Urbana OH. A copy can be found in the DAR Library.
11. "History of Champaign County, Ohio," p. 805-806. This book gives the names of John's four children who were alive at the time of the writing (ca 1917). James was not listed.
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